I just feel like crap

It’s been bothering me and I’m just trying to get over it. I was trying to be nice and hang out with a guy I didn’t really care to be around. I felt bad his friends ditch him. He spent a lot of money so I said Yeah we can hang. I had plans and I canceled them. He complained about everything little thing. When there wasn’t any left to complain about he talked badly about his mom. I think I started from here to get depressed. The next day when we started to hangout again it’s like he didn’t want to do anything. I mentioned a lot of ideas and places and it was like talking to a Debbie Downer. I just went off on him. And he gave me this whole speech about how I’m such a horrible friend. So I left. I just feel upset because I really tried to be a really good friend. I did not have to do any of this

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RisingMorningStar7 · 36-40, M

yea, you wanted to him to spend money. I avoid people that want positiveness kinda makes me feel like they will be first to complain if society collapse.

TheeRoyalBee · 31-35, F

@RisingMorningStar7 where are you getting that I wanted him to spend money? Many of my plans had nothing to do with money, free. Again like I said I really didn’t want to hang with him I truly felt bad he was ditched.

But you know when I read your profile and previous posts it all makes sense. I’m so sorry for you and how you feel about women, someone must’ve really messed your heart up. Maybe mom didn’t love you. You probably felt some cords pull as you read my story cause maybe he reminded you of yourself. And maybe you have women problems. 🥲

RisingMorningStar7 · 36-40, M

@TheeRoyalBee ah tell me were you wanted this guy to take you?

TheeRoyalBee · 31-35, F

@RisingMorningStar7 I didn’t expect anything. I don’t need someone to take me out. I wanted for us to choose a place to have fun. It could’ve been a park in all honesty. We could’ve went for a walk in the park which is completely free! And I would have been 100% happy. it doesn’t take much to have fun.

RisingMorningStar7 · 36-40, M

@TheeRoyalBee Yea, I seriously doubt you wanted those places.

TheeRoyalBee · 31-35, F

@RisingMorningStar7 ? lol ok .. I don’t know what kind of women you run into. But you need to get out more. Now, I don’t care to be inside the house all the time. But a simple going outside and walk is nice to me. I love tennis, I’ll play basketball, I will skate.

RisingMorningStar7 · 36-40, M

@TheeRoyalBee imagine some guy trying to get an honest opinion by you calling him negative. The problem with people is when they also hit rock bottom they want someone to show the sympathy and empathy. If a woman doesnt care about my state of mind I Porbably shouldn't be with them.

TheeRoyalBee · 31-35, F

@RisingMorningStar7 well you have to be vocal about your state of mind because no one is a mind reader. If you hit rock bottom be honest! Maybe people around you can help you or suggest things.

I’m kinda confused are you saying I’m calling you negative or the guy in my story negative. Cause the guy in my story is most definitely a Negative Nancy Debbie Downer. I’m all about honesty and i have told him that. He knows he needs to make changes but i am not a punching bag.

TheeRoyalBee · 31-35, F

His feelings were probably hurt from his other friends and he turned it all on me, it seems.

RisingMorningStar7 · 36-40, M

@TheeRoyalBee You said you never hung out with guy but felt bad. Now it seems you were talking to the guy for a while? so which one is it? I don't believe

RisingMorningStar7 · 36-40, M

@TheeRoyalBee Don't worry a lot men are also avoiding negative damage girls.

TheeRoyalBee · 31-35, F

@RisingMorningStar7 so understand that he is a friend. He and yes he jumps in and out of my life.

TheeRoyalBee · 31-35, F

I mean by texting not meeting in person.

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TheeRoyalBee · 31-35, F

@RisingMorningStar7 lol 🤣whatever you’ll be back tomorrow.
Have a good one ✌

RisingMorningStar7 · 36-40, M

@TheeRoyalBee Nope, if i'm on here is for reason you don't know. I have to hit the books and focus in other things.

TheeRoyalBee · 31-35, F

@RisingMorningStar7 you seem pretty busy on here talking about God and women. But good luck, in school?