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Had a girls night. Nice friends looked after them. With food and lovely bedding etc. they stayed two nights One friend I felt was using me. I feel like she always uses me for lifts etc. I didn’t say anything but out of all my friends I help her...

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Reflection2 · M

Unthankful and ungreatful friends and even family members can suck the soul out of a person.

Be greatful for seeing who she really is and stop contacting her and even if, she doesn't reply back. Don't respond back.

IM5688 · 61-69, M

#1 This woman is not a true friend. She is a user. Does she try to use the other women the same way she uses you? My guess is no, because they wouldn't put up with it.
#2 Yes, it may bother you for a little while. This is guilt. even though you are not guilty of anything.
#3 IMO, leave her alone, stop contacting her and let her contact you. She will as soon as she needs you again.
#4 When she does contact you, tell her that you need space for yourself and that you will no longer be there for her "all the time," but once in a while might be okay. If she doesn't accept that, let her go. You don't need the aggravation.

SomeMichGuy · M

@IM5688 👆👆👆

PlaygirlDizzy · 31-35, F

I had a friend like this and had to cut her loose. I’m not sure why I attract friends that are users. I didn’t even speak with her but just changed my number. You should cut ties with people this way. Especially when their actions continue after conversation