Feel weird

Had a girls night.

Nice friends looked after them. With food and lovely bedding etc.
they stayed two nights
One friend I felt was using me. I feel like she always uses me for lifts etc.
I didn’t say anything but out of all my friends I help her and support her the most when she needs anything like lifts etc.
it’s weird but when everyone went home I felt like she didn’t want to go and I was starting to feel sick the day before. So even though I was sad to see everyone go home I knew I needed some time to rest and get better.

I feel like she is angry at me for being ill?
All my friends said they had a great time except this friend
And she has not responded to my texts asking is she ok. She hasn’t even answered my call.
I can tell she’s upset but I haven’t done anything other than look after them for two days. Make them food and I got the little sleepover goody bags.

I’m upset because I shouldn’t care but I do

IM5688 · 61-69, M

#1 This woman is not a true friend. She is a user. Does she try to use the other women the same way she uses you? My guess is no, because they wouldn't put up with it.
#2 Yes, it may bother you for a little while. This is guilt. even though you are not guilty of anything.
#3 IMO, leave her alone, stop contacting her and let her contact you. She will as soon as she needs you again.
#4 When she does contact you, tell her that you need space for yourself and that you will no longer be there for her "all the time," but once in a while might be okay. If she doesn't accept that, let her go. You don't need the aggravation.

greennature · 31-35, F

I had a friend like this and had to cut her loose. I’m not sure why I attract friends that are users. I didn’t even speak with her but just changed my number. You should cut ties with people this way. Especially when their actions continue after conversation

DDaverde · 61-69, M

Well if you really feel she’s using you .. ..
Keep her at arms length..been there I know how you feel ..