Been here almost 3 years

It takes time. I have been here since the site's creation, and I am not sure of my friend count. I let folks follow me first, then I read their about me section and posts to try and figure out why they followed me. If we have things in common and their PMs to me are not about sexual desires or fetishes and we have had positive interactions on posts, then I will pm chat with them. If we get along and respect one another then I add them as a friend.

This is my process for finding and making a friends list here. I will tell you it is hard to keep up with a couple pages of friends here for sure.

You have good posts, and I wish you luck.