What gender do you feel relates more to you ?
All my friends are male usually and I really want to bond with girls too.
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PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
Mostly men because of my tomboy roots, love of old muscle cars and video games, and because I’m okay with not filling silences with unnecessary words. Didn’t even think of that last one until a guy friend told me how appreciative he was to be able to sit with me and just be. But over the past few years I’ve been able to bond with more females because we seem to currently share a lot of the same struggles and the comfort that comes from that is so amazing. It’s been a nice balance.
@PerfectionOfTheHeart I feel you on this. I have so much empathy for girls . But I'm a rebel and free spirit and basic girls don't like me much . ,:(
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
@SpiritSkye They don’t care for me much either. It’s like they don’t know how to talk to or exist with me. I’ve been lucky enough to find those above that basic level, and what’s awesome is I’ve noticed their numbers are large. Just have to look past the crowds of basic to reach them because they like to preserve their auras that much.
@PerfectionOfTheHeart Where did you find your people ?
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
@SpiritSkye A backwoods restaurant kitchen of all places. Was the most random thing finding the caliber of coworkers I have.
@PerfectionOfTheHeart I'm glad for you.
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
@SpiritSkye Your backwoods kitchen will present itself too 🙂