What gender do you feel relates more to you ?

@Idontbelonghere A backwoods restaurant kitchen of all places. Was the most random thing finding the caliber of coworkers I have.

@acupaday I'm glad for you.

@Idontbelonghere Your backwoods kitchen will present itself too 🙂

@HootyTheNightOwl I feel you and you have my empathy. 🫂

@Idontbelonghere My mother had to reassure my "big brother" that he'd have to give me time and patience - and put up with me staring at him while I settle down with him. That's just the way I've been, having never really had a safe relationship with the men around me as a child (most were physically abusive towards me and wanted to hit me).

It's not uncommon for me to bond with someone I feel safe with, yet still need to watch other members of their family. No matter how hard I try, I can't tame that primal response... even a man I don't know walking too close behind me stresses me enough for me to start having symptoms of a health crisis and try to get away from him.

@DrWatson Balance . :)

@bijouxbroussard I am also but I love everyone. I relate better to males but I try really hard to make friends with my own gender.

@caPnAhab That's cool though .

@Sweetpoison I think you're more emotionally manly than me 😅

@SinlessOnslaught Can't you just be like the under-sensitive guy with a girlfriend who cries all the time and say, "🙄 Calm down, it'll be alright."

@NerdyPotato Well I am an alien and you are my favorite person :)

@Idontbelonghere you are mine too

@NerdyPotato 🫂

@Bang5luts 👀

@Bang5luts We can't what ?

@Idontbelonghere able to form bonds with women.