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My guy friend won’t speak to me after our huge fight five days ago

Five days ago, my guy friend (let’s call him Eddy) texted me and told me he just saw Evan (my boyfriend that’s not his real name, but said that due to privacy) with another girl and sent me a photo. He was at a store. He took a picture of this back and the back of some girls back. I told him it could be anybody and people can have the same jacket. Eddy said he knows what he saw and he really saw him with another girl!
That’s impossible because he told me he was going to be a bit late and out date for postponed until 5pm. Then Eddy said that’s because he’s with that girl and he’ll be over to talk to me about it soon. So 10 minutes later he came over (he ubered at my house) and explained everything and I kept telling him it could be anybody. He got frustrated and said, “Look! I know what I saw okay?! I wouldn’t lie to you.” He pissed me off and we got into a huge fight. Eddy got upset with me saying, “I’m your good friend so why do you think I would be making this up? I want what’s best for you! Why are you tripping?!”
Then I said this, “Well you don’t want me dating Evan, you looked upset when I told you I met someone, you clearly are too protective of me and you want me to yourself, no other because you can’t get laid! You’re a virgin that can’t land a woman.”
He looked shocked and about to cry. He said, “Wow….I cannot BELIEVE what I just heard! So that’s what you think of me?! You know what, it doesn’t even matter because you don’t have the guts to listen to anymore. I’m gone! You are right about me. I’m very protective of you. I don’t want you to get hurt. You’re not the woman I thought you were. Maybe I should just leave you alone!” And he stormed off.
I just can’t believe what I said……but he was asking for it. After my date, I texted Eddy to apologize but he hasn’t tested me back. I hope he’s okay. I had a good date but I couldn’t think about what I said to Eddy.

Sorry this is so long but I needed to rant.
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esmeralda · 18-21, F
As far as I can make out he was definitely NOT asking for the way you treated him. There he was looking out for you, and you trashed him as a reward.
I hope he has the sense to find better friends than you. Which should be easy.
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@esmeralda What do you mean trash him? This is no time to joke. This is serious! I told him the truth and he obviously want me for himself and doesn’t want other guys to date me!! He’s obviously making this up to make my boyfriend look bad! She’s just jealous he isn 6’5 and he’s only 6’1 in a half.
esmeralda · 18-21, F
@LaylaTheTallGirl just going on your story: the guy in the pic just happened to have the same jacket at the time that he was late for your date...? Maybe trust your friend a bit more... and judging him by his height is saying something about you too.
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@esmeralda What do you mean I have something to do with his
Well he does sound protective of you. Has you asked you out before and you just friend zoned him?
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@VeronicaJane He’s asked he our like 10 times like everytime there’s a dance or when Valentine’s Day comes around or he sometimes he asks me out but I keep telling him WE ARE JUST FRIENDS!
Why do people get upset when women friendzone guys?
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
You have a bf? Congrats !
LaylaTheTallGirl · 22-25, F
@AthrillatheHunt thank you!

 
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