Would u still be friends with them ?

If u told a friend after hearing their issues and problems and always being there to hear them out. That u were feeling super down to the point of self-deletion at times and they just read it & out of all the messages they just happen to leave that one on read for 2 hours & so you double text them and they respond back quick that they were busy but instead it causes a fight, so you decide to give in and let it be that they were busy, but then nothing is addressed about how you felt, so you give them the open chance by telling them again that, that is how ur feeling and again they don't say anything about it, and just claim their now upset & ignore you again.

Would you still remain their friend or discard them, because you feel they don't care & it's
not reciporcated?

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caccoon · 36-40

It is entirely up to you, and I think you should choose whatever will make you feel best.

Personally I have learned that some friends I do not talk about certain things with.

Friends that are supportive, I do. it's just learning which friends have the capacity for it, and making sure I can also be that person for yhem when they need

But yeah, some people have trouble with difficult emotions and they can't be that friend. And that's okay too

Different · 31-35, M

@caccoon my thing is how can they expect my shoulder and for me to give, but they cant and wont expect an ending to the friendship. I have gotten to the point with people is if they cant reciporcate what i give them and what fhey expect then i should burn the bridge

caccoon · 36-40

@Different yeah! Or even just practicing boundaries and only being available to them for what doesn't inconvenience you

Anyway, I hope you come to a resolution that will make you feel best 💙💙