just a vent

shes making plans with her other friend every week, but seems to have forgotten about me even tho we’ve been “best friends” for 4 years, or so I thought. I don’t understand why she still talks to me, she keeps in touch but at the same time feels so uninterested? this is so frustrating

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PinkMoon · 26-30, F

You guys are not best friends. She doesn't treat you well. Have you tried talking to her about some of your concerns?

raspblossom · 22-25, F

@PinkMoon tbh im too scared of confrontation bc i dont wanna start anything, last time something like this happened the person got cut off by the entire friend group (tbh it was fair bc that certain someone was a horrible friend to all of us), and like ive kinda beat around the bush too when we talked bc she said her irl was doing something similar so i was like “i totally understand how that feels” and stuff like that but 🥲

Allelse · 36-40, M

Time to cut bait and find someone who's willing to fight for and maintain your friendship.

raspblossom · 22-25, F

@Allelse im trying to find someone who can be the same as her, but it never works, even tho she can replace me so easily i cant 🥲 but i want to but i just cant

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SW-User

Sounds very toxic to me. I would cut my losses and move on. No "friendship" is worth that

raspblossom · 22-25, F

@SW-User it really does :’) so many stuff happened and it just confuses me so much

eMortal · M

Is she a friend or a lover?

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raspblossom · 22-25, F

@eMortal I don't suffocate her tho, it's the opposite i'm always encouraging her to meet new people and make new friends and hang out with her friends, it's just that she feels so distant now like the connection isnt there anymore yk?

eMortal · M

@raspblossom She’s moving on. Some people treat platonic relationships like romantic ones.

raspblossom · 22-25, F

@eMortal that's so sad 🥲

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