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Moved to a new town

I moved to a new town and I’m really not used to change I’m (29M) I feel very bored and lonely, what should i do to overcome this fear of approaching someone and talking to them!
rfatoday · 61-69, M
Moving to a new area and not knowing anyone could be challenging. Maybe look to volunteer. Nice way to meet people and do useful things for others. I used to have a lot of anxiety reaching out to others in my younger days. One day, one of my older friends told me "Al, if you walk into a room of 100 people, 30 of them are not going to like you no matter what you say, how you look, or what car you drive. Besides, it's none of you business what they think anyway". I thought about it and it made so much practical sense, I never forgot it.

Take small steps. You'll get there.
Boudymoh · 26-30, M
@rfatoday Yeah, small steps. I’m realizing this day after another. Hoping my anxiety will give me a break 😂 Thank you
Kstrong · 56-60, F
A new start, reinvent yourself, nobody knows you, start conversations, giving positive compliments to strangers, a friend is someone you haven't met yet...see the beauty in your surroundings....don't be afraid to try something new ..
Boudymoh · 26-30, M
@Kstrong I’m getting used to that one day after another. I think i just need to give myself sometime. Thank you ♥️
Kstrong · 56-60, F
@Boudymoh wish you make new connections, friends
EPreject · 36-40, F
So why did you moce in the first place ??
Boudymoh · 26-30, M
@EPreject For work purposes. It was a very good opportunity for me
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
Look for organized singles meetups?
Boudymoh · 26-30, M
@Starcrossed i think i will try something like that at some-point when i gather the energy for a group meet up
Start writing your emotions
Boudymoh · 26-30, M
@SimplyLogicalDiscipline Yes! That’s exactly what I’m trying to do right now :)
@Boudymoh perfect
Shadyglow · F
approach someone and talk to them
Boudymoh · 26-30, M
@Shadyglow I will do try to overcome my anxiety and do that :)

 
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