Do you ever ask the other person that's in a bad conflict situation with your friend what's her side of the story?

I've done this a few times, not because I dont believe my friends, it's just that there's always multiple sides of the story. They always get surprise when i ask and tell me "No one has ever asked my side before" which stilll stuns me. I mean penny for your thoughts?

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bijouxbroussard · F

Generally I don’t know the other person. But if they’re both friends, then yes, I’ll definitely ask to get both sides.

Itsjustbrit · 26-30, F

@bijouxbroussard I didnt really know the other person but I thought it was fair to ask her side of the storym

bijouxbroussard · F

@Itsjustbrit If you’re not friends with the other person, that can be tricky. Getting both sides is fair, but could be interpreted as disloyalty by the one who is a friend—depending on the dispute.