If someone intentionally did you dirty, would you be able to be friends later on?

It can be something as small as telling a little lie about you, gossiping about you, stealing something not very valuable from you, hiding secrets from you, or anything at all that isn’t in your favor.

Personally, if I know someone did something against me, I don’t think I can be their friend later down the line. It’s like if I can’t trust them with something small, then I sure as hell can’t trust them with something bigger.

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Luckylu · 61-69, F

I cannot be friends with anyone who would do such things. I have been in such situations and it is hurtful. None of these could ever be explained away as unintentional or with good intentions. I have seen people who talk bad about someone behind their back and be as sweet as can be to their face. Even though their actions were not toward me that I witnessed, I could not be their friend from that day forward as the question always popped into my head whether they were doing the same things to me. I found out later they were. They are toxic human beings and should be avoided.