If someone intentionally did you dirty, would you be able to be friends later on?

It can be something as small as telling a little lie about you, gossiping about you, stealing something not very valuable from you, hiding secrets from you, or anything at all that isn’t in your favor.

Personally, if I know someone did something against me, I don’t think I can be their friend later down the line. It’s like if I can’t trust them with something small, then I sure as hell can’t trust them with something bigger.

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Nihiless

It really depends on the circumstances, last year someone had disclosed something intentionally just to hurt me, knowing it would make things very hard for me and immediately called my integrity into question. He essentially used me as a scapegoat however, this was because they had misunderstood me (it appeared I'd done something which I hadn't). I have forgiven them purely because of that reason alone, I could definitely understand why he would have thought it. Friendship would not be an option in the future anyway I doubt, but possibly more than that when our circumstances change in the next few years.

SW-User

@Nihiless I like that. I feel it’s a mature and idealistic thing to say. I just wouldn’t be able to get over it. If I were you, I would know that guy is capable of sabotaging people. Not sure if it’s someone I want to be in my circle.