If someone intentionally did you dirty, would you be able to be friends later on?

It can be something as small as telling a little lie about you, gossiping about you, stealing something not very valuable from you, hiding secrets from you, or anything at all that isn’t in your favor.

Personally, if I know someone did something against me, I don’t think I can be their friend later down the line. It’s like if I can’t trust them with something small, then I sure as hell can’t trust them with something bigger.

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Carissimi · F

If it was intentional, then that’s malicious, and those kind are toxic and cannot be trusted. The younger me was very tolerant of abusive people, probably because I was brought up by a toxic person. The older and wiser I became, my tolerance diminished, until I have no tolerance at all, and have most likely over-corrected because of it.

SW-User

@Carissimi exactly. Talking from our experiences, it’s hard to trust people. We keep seeing the same patterns, so it’s easy not to tolerate people the next time around. Malicious is the perfect word. Allowing the malicious ones to stick around even if they messed up once is risky. One strike and they’re out.