If someone intentionally did you dirty, would you be able to be friends later on?

It can be something as small as telling a little lie about you, gossiping about you, stealing something not very valuable from you, hiding secrets from you, or anything at all that isn’t in your favor.

Personally, if I know someone did something against me, I don’t think I can be their friend later down the line. It’s like if I can’t trust them with something small, then I sure as hell can’t trust them with something bigger.

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uncalled4 · 56-60, M

Nope, I stopped talking to someone for years after a mutual friend blew the whistle on him. He was talking shit about me to anyone who would listen. I did a lot of good things for that guy, so I stay away.

SW-User

@uncalled4 Aww, that happened to me too. Hung out with this gay guy and accepted him as a friend. He was hitting on me, although I made it clear I’m straight. Thought we were friends, so I took it that he was joking around whenever he did. Later on, I heard from people that he was talking about me behind my back from the start. I realized this gay guy wasn’t really a friend and actually was trying to convert me all those times.

Like you, I stayed away from his plotting ass with zero regret.

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

@SW-User That sucks. He was just scorned, most likely. I'm straight but have a gay friend. Known him for 20+ years, but we have never spoken about relationships in any way. It's never relevant to our chats, which are all business and the people we know in said business.