If I tell someone "go back to your quiet place" - would it be considered rude? I casually asked...

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If I tell someone "go back to your quiet place" - would it be considered rude?

I casually asked a guy whether he is a quiet person. He said "I will be like this only. I think you like an aggressive man". To which I responded "It's not about "aggressive". 2 people can have a conversation without being aggressive. Anyway go back...

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aivive · 16-17, F

in this particular context its rude c: but its ok he sounded cringe

solitaire · 41-45, F

@aivive Yeah. If I get into an apologetic mode then everytime I voice my opinion I'm going to feel like I have to be super careful before saying anything

aivive · 16-17, F

@solitaire i mean yea it was kinda unwarranted and uncalled for LMFAOO i can just picture you saying it, next time be more careful with the way u word things u dont need to initiate a convo with him nor apologize unless he texts u first c;

solitaire · 41-45, F

@aivive :)

markinkansas · 61-69, M

depends and the context.

solitaire · 41-45, F

@markinkansas Haha this is an old post of mine. But I still wonder whether I was rude 🤔

markinkansas · 61-69, M

@solitaire yup i know it was old . it needed some one to post to it to bring it back to life.. and still depends on if you was fighting and what about.. if you needed a little peace to think . not rude.. if he was giving you his ideas and you did not like them .. maybe.. again context is every thing. what happened before your talk and what happened to him before your talk..also he might have taken it wrong.. how would we know.. not a good answer i know . its the best i can give ya.. and good morning to ya . visit my profile and enjoy the music.. a song does wonders

Thevy29 · 41-45, M

Usually I ask them to pick a window. Your leaving… I get funny looks with that one.

justlooking2023 · 56-60, M

That was one scary movie.

placelessboy · 22-25, M

Given the context, it sounded rude

solitaire · 41-45, F

@placelessboy Should I apologise? I don't feel like though. So if I do it would be fake on my part

placelessboy · 22-25, M

@solitaire Well, that was kinda uncalled for, but I guess his first comment wasn't nice either. I don't think you should apologize if you don't feel like it.

PhilDeep · 51-55, M

Just looking at the words, I'd consider it means "shut up," which in some contexts is necessary, though I'd rather just say shut up.

solitaire · 41-45, F

@PhilDeep Haven't heard from the person since this interaction. I won't be surprised if I don't hear from him again

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