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Why do people keep telling me to give my close guy friend (that likes me) a chance?

My ex boyfriends were jerks. One cheated on me with a petite girl (he was the same height as me. When we got back together he ended up being abusive towards me) and the other dumped me because he was embarrassed to be with a very tall woman. He’s 5’7 and I’m 6’0”.
Why do I always attract jerks?
My friends even my late dad even told me that this other guy (let’s call him Eddie) that likes me has been there and treats me so well. I kept telling them we’re just friends and stop trying to get me to date him. This guy I was seeing last month ended things because I pushed him to meet my family and put him on the spot to be insulted for being mixed (white/Native American). I told my family off and they told me it’s my fault for inviting him knowing my most of my family doesn’t support interracial relationships (racist) and if I hadn’t of brought him, this drama would have been avoided. I did warn him before he met them and asked if he wanted to meet them. I didn’t make him. I hung out a couple times but had two dates. He cancelled our third date.
Eddie called me out for my reckless choices and my ugly attitude is going to keep me single for a while.
My grandparents tell me I need to be single for a while and also my guy friend has been there for me and I should be with someone that likes me for who I am and stop pushing Eddie away. They weren’t hearing my crap anymore and said I’m too blind to realize the guy I’m looking for is right in front of me and they aren’t letting me screw up. They told me if I keep pushing Eddie away, he will move on I’m going to regret it. Give him a chance.
Man they know how to shut me up. I’m tired of them telling me to give him a chance.
Eddie doesn’t care if I’m taller than him. He’s 5’8”.
Renkon · 36-40, M
Take a breather. You are not at an age where it's arbitrary to have a partner. Try engaging with your life. Look for new challenges. Try to figure out where you want to be. Meet people. Go to places. Youth and energy...use it wise.

I don't know if you will agree with this, but, at your age a good friend works better than a BF. Why stress on all the drama. Just my opinion.
SW-User
I would love to chat to you and get to know each other xxxx

 
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