My friend and I had a heated argument yesterday morning. Who’s in the wrong here?
Warning, long rant.
So I explained to her (let’s call her Bridgette) on video chat what happened. So I went to one of my friend’s (let’s call her Amy) house to help her clean out her closet. She stopped cleaning to talk to her boyfriend.
Amy asked if I can finish cleaning her closet for her. Then we met our other two girls pals (let’s call Jenna and Janelle) at the mall. They pretty much we ignored me and only interacted with each other. I got ignored when I asked them about their day and got told to shift up. I was the fourth wheel.
They claimed that they don’t have anymore money and ask me to pay for their purchases. So I reluctantly agreed too. When they asked to get ice cream, I said I don’t know. Jenna demanded that I buy them ice cream. I said no and they called me selfish and after they went to the bathroom, they never came back. I searched and I called them. Nothing. Then I took Uber home.
Bridgette told me I need to ditch them and she still can’t believe I’m talking to them again when they used me before. She got very pissed off and told me she’s warned me for months and reminded me how they treated me back in height school and how they abandoned me at the restaurant. She told me to stop being so naive and face the facts.
I yelled at her not this damn lecture again and she put her foot down and said, “No! You need to hear this! They’re using you! They don’t care about you! The only reason they “apologize” to you is to just use you again. None of them work and you have a job! They’re only using you to get ahead of their desperate, pathetic lives. And YOU are stupid for reconciling with them! They are selfish c*nts and your best friends told you a long time ago and you pushed them away. I’m not letting you push me away. Your family is right and you need to listen to them but as always you’re too stubborn to see the truth and you only care about being right! I don’t wanna hear your temper tantrum. Ditch them!”
I screamed at her and we had this huge heated argument! I said something to her that was unforgivable. She said, “You know what….this is exactly why you’re best friends left you. You scream whenever you ask for the truth and what you said to me was uncalled for! You don’t even know what a “real” friend is because you suck at being one! You hurt the ones that really love you and got after jackass that use you! You’re a shitty friend! If you wanna spend the rest being used and abused for the rest of your life and be lonely? Be alone! You just see the truth for yourself. I’m done trying to help you!” Then she hung up.
Wow….she really made me feel awful and I had to hold back the tears. I ended up crying.Bridgette’s good at hurting my feeling. We’ll she insulted me. What did she expect?
So I explained to her (let’s call her Bridgette) on video chat what happened. So I went to one of my friend’s (let’s call her Amy) house to help her clean out her closet. She stopped cleaning to talk to her boyfriend.
Amy asked if I can finish cleaning her closet for her. Then we met our other two girls pals (let’s call Jenna and Janelle) at the mall. They pretty much we ignored me and only interacted with each other. I got ignored when I asked them about their day and got told to shift up. I was the fourth wheel.
They claimed that they don’t have anymore money and ask me to pay for their purchases. So I reluctantly agreed too. When they asked to get ice cream, I said I don’t know. Jenna demanded that I buy them ice cream. I said no and they called me selfish and after they went to the bathroom, they never came back. I searched and I called them. Nothing. Then I took Uber home.
Bridgette told me I need to ditch them and she still can’t believe I’m talking to them again when they used me before. She got very pissed off and told me she’s warned me for months and reminded me how they treated me back in height school and how they abandoned me at the restaurant. She told me to stop being so naive and face the facts.
I yelled at her not this damn lecture again and she put her foot down and said, “No! You need to hear this! They’re using you! They don’t care about you! The only reason they “apologize” to you is to just use you again. None of them work and you have a job! They’re only using you to get ahead of their desperate, pathetic lives. And YOU are stupid for reconciling with them! They are selfish c*nts and your best friends told you a long time ago and you pushed them away. I’m not letting you push me away. Your family is right and you need to listen to them but as always you’re too stubborn to see the truth and you only care about being right! I don’t wanna hear your temper tantrum. Ditch them!”
I screamed at her and we had this huge heated argument! I said something to her that was unforgivable. She said, “You know what….this is exactly why you’re best friends left you. You scream whenever you ask for the truth and what you said to me was uncalled for! You don’t even know what a “real” friend is because you suck at being one! You hurt the ones that really love you and got after jackass that use you! You’re a shitty friend! If you wanna spend the rest being used and abused for the rest of your life and be lonely? Be alone! You just see the truth for yourself. I’m done trying to help you!” Then she hung up.
Wow….she really made me feel awful and I had to hold back the tears. I ended up crying.Bridgette’s good at hurting my feeling. We’ll she insulted me. What did she expect?
18-21, F
