Would you tell you friend if you thought their girlfriend/boyfriend was not attractive?

Or would you keep it to yourself?

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DrWatson · 70-79, M

What in the world would be the point, other than to cause pain where it is not deserved?

How in the world would my opinion of his girlfriend's looks be at all relevant to their relationship or to our friendship?

It would be very cruel to say anything like that. So I would not.

perceptivei · 36-40, F

@DrWatson Best explanation/response so far.

No reason at all to tell your friend you don't find their partner attractive. It doesn't matter in the least and it's very rude.