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CrazyMusicLover · 31-35 Best Comment
I know I do. It just leaves a gross bitter aftertaste when you learn someone you liked to interact with harbors beliefs that are unacceptable to you and in total conflict with your moral values.
4meAndyou · F
@CrazyMusicLover Yes. That about sums it up.
@CrazyMusicLover you do have a point. For me, some crucial ethical differences can end friendships.

I supoose it depends what you find out. I mean, ive deleted 'friends' not from interactions with them, but by interactions ive seen with others.
Someone seemed a total gentleman till i found out he was a creepy old predator leech to barely legal aged girls.
I dont often let one element end a friendship....but i found some things are just deal breakers.
4meAndyou · F
@OogieBoogie I am sorry to hear that about your creepy old predator friends...🤣 JK!!!!

No, seriously, my friend and I have already patched things over privately. If I KNOW that my friends have ethical or religious differences I can accept them and love them for who they are. I was just blind sided...did not KNOW that I was offending. Also, I should probably not be reading posts at 4:30 a.m. when I can't sleep.

If I know in advance, I am usually VERY diplomatic.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@OogieBoogie That's exactly what I had on mind. I also found out things through their interactions with others.
@4meAndyou 🤣🤣, yeah...4:30 am isn't the best time for deep discussions ....well, unless its all sexy like 😜.

Im SO GLAD its all patched up.
Excellent 🤗💜
@CrazyMusicLoveryeah...makes you feel kinda 'used' and puts a taint on everything they say after that. 😒
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@OogieBoogie I felt dirty.
4meAndyou · F
@OogieBoogie It is. I make friends for good reasons...it's because they are honest and straight up people.
@4meAndyou same .

And i think thats what makes any conflict harder.
I mean, if they are wishy washy with little depth....its easy to not care or give a shit.
But when its someone you DO care about ....words can cut deeper.

Its so hard to step back and not get pulled down by a hurt.
4meAndyou · F
@OogieBoogie All done with it now. My friend has been PM ing me and has healed my little itsy bitsy fee fees...🤣🤣🤣

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