Ok so I’m hanging w my friend I went to the bar with. The past few times we been hanging there has been sexual tension. We workout almost everyday but we never been to the pool or hot tub part of the gym and uhhh look what he texted me
I kinda don’t want anything to happen cuz I don’t wanna ruin the friendship but also I am horny and maybe it won’t ruin the friendship lol
It wont ruin the friendship... but then again..it depends on how mature you and him are about the situation... IF you both know its a FWB style situation then all is well ... you both just have to be able to maintain that unless you both want more
You probably already know this, but being on the same page goes a long way. I had a friend a while back. I was in no place to be in a FWB type situation. A year or so goes by and she’s in a relationship and I’m still not wanting a relationship but at least in the headspace to be in a FWB situation. A few weeks later I see her, it’s a small town, and she gets mad at me. Telling me how if I found her unattractive that I could’ve said something. I simply said, “I never said that. I was not in a good place and you knew it. Now I am and you’re dating someone. I would never try and come between you two.” Obviously most people would understand, especially when they’re in a relationship. I was not attracted to her after that.
