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It's okay to cry...

My elderly neighbor husband after 57 years of marriage passed away almost a month ago and for the most part she's been okay but she'll cry sometimes and always say I'm sorry for crying............. Why?????? I was like you just lost the love of your life why are you apologizing for crying? I don't understand that at all. I would be bawling every chance I got! They've been my neighbor for the past 14 years. They moved up from Florida because they were tired of running from hurricanes. 😂 She told me they met while she was on a family vacation after that week of vacationing she flew back to Indiana packed her bags and they were married within 2 weeks of meeting each other. She told me she knew he was the one for her. ❤️ That's why I told her she could cry all she wanted to and I'll hold her while she cries. I wrote this because she called me at 7 this morning to come get some CAN soups she had 😂 she calls me Bunny she was like Bunny come on over right now and get this soup 🥴 I threw on my robe and walked over...... *sigh* Lord bless her heart! I wanted to say can you wait until after 9:30 😂🤣😂🤣
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Bklynbadboy12 · 36-40, M
Yes of course crying is OK sometimes that's how you vent your emotions it's like a release valve to get it out so definitely let her cry she needs a good cry to get all of that emotion out she'll be alright it's just gonna take time
PEACH4LIFE · 46-50, F
@Bklynbadboy12 yes she will be. She has 2 daughters and one of them will be moving in with her and I'm glad about that so she won't be be alone. But she told me she wanted 3 months by herself so she could think.
Bklynbadboy12 · 36-40, M
@PEACH4LIFE Yes she has all of that and that's a good thing but you forgot one thing that's really important she has you and that right now seems to be more valuable to her than anything because she's opening up to you so it shows she's comfortable enough to let you in and that's a big deal cause it means she trust you
PEACH4LIFE · 46-50, F
@Bklynbadboy12 she's not only my neighbor but she's a good friend too!