I have a friend overseas that's loved me for a long time

She wants to come over and see me but she doesn't want to get hurt. I've told her to just come and see me as a friend because I can't have feelings like that unless I spend time with someone in person. So I can't gaurentee anything. We get on super well, I think she's attractive and she's funny af but I don't think you can know unless you actually spend time in person.

I think I have a block on certain emotions due to my past and present of not being in a relationship for a long time and my self worth negative beliefs. Is it just me that's like that?.

I think I'm being fair and honest there?