Age difference

Is It normal for a 50 year old man
To be hanging out and drink with 19-23yr olds ?

Tell me it's not normal !? And why would they do it ?

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Repete · 61-69, M

Normal or not , that is the question, who knows what’s normal for someone else? It’s not my cup of tea but I don’t believe Every man only has sex on their minds . Friends do go out for a drink or just a relaxing time without the drama of sex entering the picture. That’s just my opinion

I’m not going to judge a man or a woman by who they see or where they go, that’s totally up to them.

Fluffybull · F

@Repete Exactly. 👍

bijouxbroussard · F

@Repete But I imagine if this were your partner or spouse, wouldn’t you be a [b]little[/b] curious ?

Repete · 61-69, M

Again assuming there’s a partner, this needs more knowledge of the people involved and take it from there if you are a friend and not just a busybody.
That is a tough place to get into , you may lose a friend or friends. Need to know both sides, both people@bijouxbroussard

bijouxbroussard · F

@Repete I read further down where the OP [b]says[/b]:
[quote]
Ifollowmyownstar · 41-45, F
My 50 year old bf
Have been partying with the young boys
They aren't even grown up .
All acts like teenagers.
And when I speak to him about it
He flips. 🙄[/quote]
If this were a stranger, neighbor, acquaintance, yes I’d say mind your business. But in the context of an intimate relationship I’d want to know. And if I couldn’t talk to him about it, he wouldn’t be my boyfriend anymore.

Repete · 61-69, M

I don’t see that part. But I did answer part of that by accident . If this is the case he may be trying to decide what he wants to do with his life because he may not be happy about how his life is going.him and his partner needs to talk it is between them two. Again a friendly question from a friend could help but accusing him of doing anything more than what is known will not help anyone. He may need help but he has to ask and want the help. Same with his partner in my opinion .
Before I got married my partner and I agreed we both have lives and things we like to do,and together we have a life . I never once cheated on her and I don’t think she ever did. She never tried to stop me from seeing my friends with or without her and I never did with her.we had problems sometimes but we were open with each other. Sometimes well intentioned friends made things interesting. @bijouxbroussard