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Urgent! One of my friends now ex boyfriend is kicking her out! She’s asking me if I want to be roommates. What do I do?

I KNEW this was going to happen. I mean I warned her about her ex-boyfriend and staying with them but she said things was going to be different but after two months he cheated on her today they’re kicking her out and she’s asking me if we wanna be roommates. I didn’t answer because I didn’t know what to say and if I say no, she’s gonna think I’m a bad friend. I thought I wasn’t ready to be roommates a couple of months ago but she keeps asking me. I live with my father and I don’t think he’s gonna want to be responsible for another person in the house. She is trying to look for an apartment right now but she has no job. What am I supposed to do? I don’t want her to be out in the streets. I can’t afford to move out right now. She should’ve stayed with her family. I have homework I have to work on I can’t worry about that right now. I know my best friend is very important, but I warned her. I don’t want to drag anybody else into this.
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eyeno · M
[b]stay out of it.., your asking for more trouble, after all she didn't want to listen to you to begin with. Now its on her..., not you.[/b]
ElizabethBabe1994 · 26-30, F
@eyeno yeah my dad said as she should have really thought about it before moving back. He said that before she thought about moving back. Now she’s really begging to be roommates. I don’t know if she meant by her getting her own place or her staying with me because I tell you the truth, I don’t want her staying with me. But what if she ends up in the streets? She should’ve stayed with her family.
DoubleRings · 51-55, F
@ElizabethBabe1994 Not your monkey and not your circus
ElizabethBabe1994 · 26-30, F
@DoubleRings I warned her about him! She’s going to have to contact her family friend and see if she can stay with them or move back with her family.
eyeno · M
@ElizabethBabe1994 IMO: This what I'd say to her, " my answer is [b]No[/b] because I want to stay friends".

We all pay for life changing situations that only we put ourselves in!
She'll just have to take it in stride and deal with it as an adult good or bad.
DoubleRings · 51-55, F
@ElizabethBabe1994 She will find a way
ElizabethBabe1994 · 26-30, F
@eyeno true I don’t wanna be responsible for her.