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Urgent! One of my friends now ex boyfriend is kicking her out! She’s asking me if I want to be roommates. What do I do?

I KNEW this was going to happen. I mean I warned her about her ex-boyfriend and staying with them but she said things was going to be different but after two months he cheated on her today they’re kicking her out and she’s asking me if we wanna be roommates. I didn’t answer because I didn’t know what to say and if I say no, she’s gonna think I’m a bad friend. I thought I wasn’t ready to be roommates a couple of months ago but she keeps asking me. I live with my father and I don’t think he’s gonna want to be responsible for another person in the house. She is trying to look for an apartment right now but she has no job. What am I supposed to do? I don’t want her to be out in the streets. I can’t afford to move out right now. She should’ve stayed with her family. I have homework I have to work on I can’t worry about that right now. I know my best friend is very important, but I warned her. I don’t want to drag anybody else into this.
eyeno · M
[b]stay out of it.., your asking for more trouble, after all she didn't want to listen to you to begin with. Now its on her..., not you.[/b]
eyeno · M
@ElizabethBabe1994 IMO: This what I'd say to her, " my answer is [b]No[/b] because I want to stay friends".

We all pay for life changing situations that only we put ourselves in!
She'll just have to take it in stride and deal with it as an adult good or bad.
DoubleRings · 51-55, F
@ElizabethBabe1994 She will find a way
ElizabethBabe1994 · 26-30, F
@eyeno true I don’t wanna be responsible for her.
DoubleRings · 51-55, F
Tell her it’s a big decision you can’t just say yes and you can’t afford it rn or in the near future. A friend should understand - you’re both adults
ElizabethBabe1994 · 26-30, F
@DoubleRings Right and she knows that I can’t afford to move out and I keep telling her that. She said really thought about it before she decided to move in with him and I warned her about him.
Can't she go back to her family ?
ElizabethBabe1994 · 26-30, F
@Ihopetolivehappily She doesn’t wanna go back. She left because she got treated like shit.
@ElizabethBabe1994 Unless violence was involved she can still go back to family, if she has no other option.

Living in the streets is much worse.
ElizabethBabe1994 · 26-30, F
@Ihopetolivehappily Yeah. She said she will stay at her old house. She doesn’t have a job but she’s looking for one and focusing on school right now. She may want to think about it. She asked if I wanted to move in soon but I can’t. I keep telling her. I should probably just move in so she can stop bugging me but then I’ll regret it.

 
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