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zizonlu · 26-30, M
I sent you a message

It's usually because they get bored with you and move onto someone else.
Nevertooold · 56-60, M
Or when they don't message you back....it takes about 10 seconds to reply with a not interested...I'm busy or anything ....I find it very rude when people do that....You don't know what's going on in their lives but....I think that is reallyrude!!That happens all the time Marih....people are just rude and ignorant these ndays...and worse....they don't even care!!!Don't get sad Marih....you have no control over how others act....hang in there!!!
@Nevertooold I think it’s rude too. But I do know sometimes life pulls them away unexpectedly and such.. so I don’t look at it as closely as I use to.
ninahart23 · 26-30, F
I don't know why someone would do that. I guess I might do that if you said something really offensive but I would probably let you know it was offensive first..
Pretzel · 70-79, M
back when people went to clubs guys would get phone numbers - and then not call

pretty much the same thing

just out there proving they are attractive enough to "score"
WhateverWorks · 36-40
for me. It’s usually that I don’t have anything to say/add. I like talking to people in the comments section, but not do much my inbox
romell · 51-55, M
If you don't respond to pms how is one supposed to chat??
Some People have no common courtesy…and feel comfortable to be rude…
Keepitsimple · 56-60, F
Sometimes people get weird though and you have to back away before you become weird. That’s been my experience.
SarithBorn · 22-25, M
I am not a ghoster, i always try to let them know that i am going or something came up. 😇
SW-User
It's happened sometimes and honestly, I think it can happen for so many reasons, but none of them feel good. Sometimes someone feels like theyre bothering the other person so they stop replying. Sometimes one person gets bored. Sometimes someone gets annoyed. Sometimes they forget to message the friend back. All of them sad, but can very well happen :/
Rambler · 61-69, M
It's very easy for people to be rude online, best not to take it too personally if you can
jamieb1221 · 26-30, M
It's people who just want something and realised they won't get it or they can't hold a conversation I've been there too your not alone there there's plenty of others out there so you'll find more to talk chat have a laugh with for sure
SW-User
Unfortunately this happens often. But this could be for any number of reasons. Some are just life circumstances getting in the way ond some of a much more sinister reasons
Neuman · M
I'd expect that they either thought the conversation was over, or was headed in directions they didn't want to go, or wasn't headed in directions they want. or maybe they just had to go because life stuff. it's always hard to tell with swlife.
Justferfuun33 · 46-50, M
Getting ghosted was one of the reasons I left SW earlier this year but I like it here and I decided not to let anyone else ruin my experience project 😊
Seems to be a trend on here. I personally love chatting to others , especially people with original stories to tell. The world is full of interesting people
RockVolleyGirl · 18-21, F
I agree. I don't get it. You have a great conversation, you're hitting it off, and then poof! They're gone forever. Weird and sad.
AceWarbringer · 41-45, M
Chatting usually resolves pretty quickly.

Some people can talk forever, others not so much. Depends on the pairing and the conversation i think
Try not to take it too personal. Sometimes my anxiety causes a few conversations to slip by. I also know the feeling from your current perspective myself.💞🤗
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TheBustyBlogger · 26-30, F
That stinks. I've experienced the same a few times before. I'm open to chat if you are.
Nick1 · 61-69, M
@TheBustyBlogger People think it’s ok to be rude on-line. Good chat and chatting buddy is always good if done with respect and consideration.
Adambreedwell · 31-35, M
I'm always up for chatting, just talking like people, with or without flirting or anything.
Thespis · M
I'm sorry. It does really hurt when someone who's conversations you've been enjoying disappears suddenly. I've felt that disappointment.
smiler2012 · 61-69
{@marih] no need to feel sad and take it as a personal slight . some people probably come on similars worlds between doing something else
Snowleopard2000 · 56-60, M
Sorry that has happened to you. I love chatting on here and making connections
nevergiveup · 61-69, M
I love to chat about anything. But i find people dont stay long and move on
Snowleopard2000 · 56-60, M
Sorry that's happened. Sound like people not interested in a true friendship
ProfessorPlum77 · 70-79, MVIP
I usually tell someone I am leaving a chat.
I will say "I have to head to bed" or give some other explanation, in most cases.
Richard65 · M
I agree, it's not nice to be ghosted like that for no apparent reason 😞
DaddyThomas · 46-50, M
It happens sometimes. Maybe they forgot your username or didn’t see you online.
oldercanuck1 · 70-79, M
If i chat with you i will always return your message ,,, and will let you know when i am about to leave ,,,
MissyChrissy · 18-21, F
I know that well, Miss. People are strange here.
Like to chat? I never ignore a chat partner.
Justbegood · 31-35, M
I’m around most days and always try and reply x
Snowleopard2000 · 56-60, M
Hope you found some nice people to chat to
I know what u mean. I don't understand that either.
496sbc · 41-45, M
Hey i wont do that to you hit me up. I love to chat.
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Yeah I get that a lot. But then again I'm male so I expect that really.
Vetman · 51-55, M
I always feel like I said something wrong
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Jordan420 · 61-69, F
sometimes a chat runs its course.
496sbc · 41-45, M
Ik tell me about it
SW-User
That’s why I don’t bother chatting anymore. What’s worse is when they backstab you about the chats. I rather they ignore me.
I'm sorry to hear that :(
Wrestlingfanforever71 · 51-55, M
I wonder that myself
DaddyThomas · 46-50, M
I’d love to talk with you, just pm me
SW-User
Im up to chat anytime!
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Dadbod52 · 61-69, M
its a shame. happens to the best of us.
DrewLooking4U · 46-50, M
I’ve tried chatting with you but zero luck

 
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