What do you think?

This is true in just about any kind of relationship.

The first applies to even things you innocently don't want to talk about. Because the silence is noticeable. And it festers in the long run.

And yes I am guilty of the last because certain things are too painful to talk about.

I don't think you'll get caught every time, but such things do break down communication.
Which will kill the relationship.

YEP.. Kinda one reason im GLAD ive been single almost 8 years.. Dont have to deal with getting hurt..

I dont think its a given you'll get caught...but always a possibility