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My BF is literally the opposite of everything I disliked about my ex. Sometimes I feel so very thankful that I broke up with him. I did not feel it while I was dating him, but I am filled with gloominess when I recall that period.
He was all about looks, material things, and very superficial in general. Wanted me to look perfect all the time, even in the cold weather when everyone just wants to be comfortable. Boring in activities we did and food we ate, like he wanted to stay home and eat burgers all year long, and scroll down insta indefinitely. Very culturally ignorant to an offensive and racist level although I don’t think he was racist he was just really ignorant, yet why the phuk are you dating someone from a completely different culture!! Unreliable in such silly activities like shopping, I can’t believe how lazy and selfish in a sense he was, just looking after his comfort. Like I cant imagine how unsupportive and lazy he would have been, had he been around while getting my new home together, considering the amount of work my BF put in my condo without me even asking. Actually, I have been too lazy about getting things ready, and I would not have had half the stuff I have ready today, if it wasn’t for him initiating it. Or I would have had them, but paid waay more money because I am just dumb like that. He hardly cares about what I wear, my weight or looks. Actually, I’ve been obsessing about certain things in my looks in an unhealthy way, and he helped me tremendously feel less insecure about it, and life has been better because this insecurity was ruining my life. My ex was terrified of commitment, like we were approaching six months in and refused to call me his GF, wtf, sometimes I don’t know why and how I was dating him this person. I am so blessed to be with someone so better this time of the year, someone reliable, and doesn’t have commitment insecurities and actually wants to introduce me to his entire world, family and friends. That’s one this year’s blessings, and I think I would have been way less happy by the end of this year if I didn’t have him, he definitely added a lot to my life during this year, and constantly pushes me to do more. Which is what I need! I was always able to push myself to do, but not anymore, apparently!
Wait, that was longer than I expected!
He was all about looks, material things, and very superficial in general. Wanted me to look perfect all the time, even in the cold weather when everyone just wants to be comfortable. Boring in activities we did and food we ate, like he wanted to stay home and eat burgers all year long, and scroll down insta indefinitely. Very culturally ignorant to an offensive and racist level although I don’t think he was racist he was just really ignorant, yet why the phuk are you dating someone from a completely different culture!! Unreliable in such silly activities like shopping, I can’t believe how lazy and selfish in a sense he was, just looking after his comfort. Like I cant imagine how unsupportive and lazy he would have been, had he been around while getting my new home together, considering the amount of work my BF put in my condo without me even asking. Actually, I have been too lazy about getting things ready, and I would not have had half the stuff I have ready today, if it wasn’t for him initiating it. Or I would have had them, but paid waay more money because I am just dumb like that. He hardly cares about what I wear, my weight or looks. Actually, I’ve been obsessing about certain things in my looks in an unhealthy way, and he helped me tremendously feel less insecure about it, and life has been better because this insecurity was ruining my life. My ex was terrified of commitment, like we were approaching six months in and refused to call me his GF, wtf, sometimes I don’t know why and how I was dating him this person. I am so blessed to be with someone so better this time of the year, someone reliable, and doesn’t have commitment insecurities and actually wants to introduce me to his entire world, family and friends. That’s one this year’s blessings, and I think I would have been way less happy by the end of this year if I didn’t have him, he definitely added a lot to my life during this year, and constantly pushes me to do more. Which is what I need! I was always able to push myself to do, but not anymore, apparently!
Wait, that was longer than I expected!
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
But now you get the 30th Anniversary aesthetics ✨
Captainjackass · 31-35, M
What game you playing?
BittersweetPotato · 31-35, F
@Captainjackass I have not used it in ages. Not playing anything