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DunningKruger · 61-69, M
I generally associate cute with immaturity — not in a bad way, but in an age way. Babies are cute. Puppies are cute. So, someone who has baby or puppy or kitten-like features — big eyes, effusive attitude and so on — is probably cute.
Hotness and sexiness, in contrast, is almost entirely about attitude as opposed to beauty. Sure, beauty is a component of hotness/sexiness, but it's not the most important component and isn't necessarily even necessary. One of the sexiest women I've ever known in my life was not especially attractive physically, but she was smart, outgoing, funny and flirtatious. In contrast, I've known any number of physically beautiful women who didn't seem to have any sex appeal at all.
My 2 cents. YMMV.
Hotness and sexiness, in contrast, is almost entirely about attitude as opposed to beauty. Sure, beauty is a component of hotness/sexiness, but it's not the most important component and isn't necessarily even necessary. One of the sexiest women I've ever known in my life was not especially attractive physically, but she was smart, outgoing, funny and flirtatious. In contrast, I've known any number of physically beautiful women who didn't seem to have any sex appeal at all.
My 2 cents. YMMV.