Is it really important?

I got sent a picture of someone's dinner and to me it looked like heartattack on the plate.
It's too much food 4 Yorkshire puddings, 5 roast potatoes a large slab of cauliflower cheese, broccoli and cabbage, lots of. Roast pork and coated in gravy.

I showed the photo to my mum, I said look how much food is on this plate isn't that a lot of food?
She immediately asks me is that your partners dinner so I said no...
I then repeated and said is that too much or is that just me? So she repeated is it your partners and I said no, does it matter?
I'm showing you the food?

I wasn't being secretive but sometimes I find things on the Internet and show my mum.

I know I might have been abrupt but does it matter if that's his food or a random does that change the quantity?