I called my girlfriend at work today and said "I forgot my sandwich", which I had--I had simply neglected to bring it with me to work. Though I had wrapped it in foil, she threw it away! I had planned on eating it when I got home!
Why?
My girlfriend is a terrible germophobe. She thinks that food spoils instantaneously if it's left out. She thinks I'll get food poisoning. Though I didn't yell or anything, it was hard to hide my disdain for such OCD craziness. And to me, that's what it is.
Am I the a-hole? Opinions might vary, but I'm curious.
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She didn’t do it to be hurtful or to upset you. She has a compulsion and this triggered it.
I understand being annoyed that your lunch was tossed but I would be more worried about her and making sure that she’s okay and has the support she needs to manage her OCD.