@StarLily This has been a trouble I've faced all too many times, because I look for hope or goodness that isn't there. So I'm learning it's best to go by first impressions before I overthink it to death & skew reality. But then again.... [quote]life has a lot of fun teaching me lessons. [/quote][/quote]...this is true, and they may not be fun while we're learning, but they can lead to beautiful destinations. 💙
@StarLily That is honest truth..... Especially when something tells you "something just isn't right with this guy" from the beginning. Yet you stay & find illusory beliefs to justify it. Why we do the stupid stuff we do?! 😶
@MoonlightLullaby Wow. Well, to answer that question thoroughly would turn into a lengthy post that's for sure.🤭 My simple summation would be... because we believe what we want to believe (while sometimes ignoring what we don't like), and often according to the false hope our heart lays out for us.🤷♀️
Now give me the magic remedy to not ever do that again please!!✨🧙♀️💊😃
@StarLily [quote]Well, to answer that question thoroughly would turn into a lengthy post that's for sure.[/quote]
Are you referring to the inability for unicornical brevity?!🤭 Your summary was very much correct though, and through such situations, we do grow. I think we both have discovered the wealth of wisdom to NEVER return to such a state of stupidity. EVER. Hell no.🧐
