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this guy on here insisted on sending me cashapp's....

I told him over and over he didn't need to do that, but he insisted, and im not going to turn down free money! After all that build-up, he sent me 5 bucks lol.

Ok..5 bucks more than I had before, so I was appreciative. 🤷‍♀️ He then sent me another 5 bucks..so 10 total.

Y'all have to understand, tho, this guy was sooo boring. His idea of a conversational opening was "hey", and he only spoke of work, like..ever.

I was communicative and told him he needed to speak more, give his opinions on things, etc. Even then, he didn't get it.

I then ignored his last 3 messages, and he created another profile, apparently thinking that would solve me lolol. I did respond to him on the new profile and tried to let him down easy by saying I had just been very busy and like interacting more in Q&A than dm's (which is true).

I spoke to him a little and tried to give him some advice on his job interview, etc. Still, very surface stuff. So, this last time when he just sent his "hey", I ignored him. He then said, "I miss sending you cashapp money hehe".

I said that he has had my cashapp this entire time, and I feel like he uses the sending of money to try to motivate me to speak to him.

He then blocked me bahaha. I am so glad he saved me the trouble...omg...totally his loss, and I can make 10 bucks in 20 minutes.....not worth that rate to be bored out of my skulllll.
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SW-User
That is very strange behavior he was exhibiting.
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@SW-User yeah..it is like he knows he is boring, and feels he needs to pay for friendship. why not just use the money on social lessons?
SW-User
@foldedunfolding Sounds like behavior of someone on the spectrum
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@SW-User ahh good point. he was a nice enough guy, so i tried to hang in there..i am just so glad he saved me the trouble.
@SW-User @foldedunfolding yaaa theres def red flags here
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@TryingtoLava i wouldn't call them red flags, as he seemed like a perfectly nice, if lonely, fellow. but flags of autism? yes.
@foldedunfolding its just sending money for friendship is what im saying
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@TryingtoLava yeah exactly..it screams low self esteem..and while i have compassion for that, i do have a line. work on yourself and take constructive feedback to get better. it isnt a huge attractant!
@foldedunfolding yuppp! Andd itd only get more codependent tbh you dont know him or what he will do in a few months specially since $ is involved
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@TryingtoLava oh no co about it, trust me lol..maybe he would be dependent on me, but NOT vice versa.