Hi, many boys/guys think they have to move out from parents that they can wet their bed on purpose. I've thought the same, but after chatting with others and thinking about it I found out that if you're waiting til you live on your own, then you'll keep yourself from the best sensation.
What gives the real kick is the risk of getting caught. If there's no risk any more, then it's like peeing in the toilet. It's still nice, but you'll miss the real kick!
I've experienced that myself and heard the same from others. Some even go to a hotel to pee the bed there on purpose, just to get back that sensation. You definitely should try it while still living with parents. If you don't know how to hide it, just ask me, Im very experienced in hiding and giving friends tips to hide.
It's the same for wetting while being asleep. Of course then you'll wake up in a cold wet bed and maybe you'll get aroused, too, but then you'll miss the best part of it all: Letting out a big stream of hot pee and feeling it spreading all over yourself and in your bed, forcing it out and feeling the relief. If you wake up in a cold wet bed you'd miss this.
I guess you want to be a real bedwetter, because then you would do it in your bed although you're still living with parents, but your mental barrier keeps you from doing it. Your body is longing for it, but you're still afraid and therefor you either don't do it or can't really enjoy the whole pleasure.
Think about it: you wanna be a real bedwetter. If you were, then you'd wake up in a wet bed and had to deal with it. You don't do it on purpose, because you're in fear of dealing with it. What keeps your body from being a real bedwetter is the fact that you're too much in fear of the conequences. Once you decide to just do it and let it go on purpose, then your body will realize it's okay to just go pee in bed and after a while you'll experience that you just pee in sleep. I've experiencedd it myself. Teach your body it's totally okay to go pee in your bed no matter what, then your body will do it subconciously while you're asleep.
That's the way it works. You have to teach your body to step over that mental barrier.