Occasional accidents at night?

Maybe it's not common for most people but for some of us it is.

@QuickChe Yes. I'm old enough now not to sweat it. Once you've bought diapers 3 or 4x, you realize not everyone is looking at you. You just have to get through those few times.

And I had to wear diapers as a substitute teacher because sometimes you don't get a key for the bathroom.

As my control got weaker I just had to soldier on. I know it's hard at 1st but you get used to it. Just make sure anyone you're going to have sex with doesn't see it until you're sure of them.

Its common to people I think

It is not very common but it certainly happens. The easiest thing is to keep a mattress protector under the top sheet, so you don’t ruin the mattress.

About 1% of people never really get full bladder control. Then there are the ones that do for a shorter or longer time. If you're having trouble that way, just get diapers. I'm not clear why you're embarrassed, since diapers will only be seen by family. If you take a girl to bed, you can finesse it until you split for another reason or you're close.enough where she'll accept that you need diapers at night.

There are statistics about how many kids wet the bed at various ages, but I don't trust them. Most kids keep their wetting secret as much as possible. I know that I wet often enough to be distressed about it as a teen and ever later. It's hard to feel helpless to control something so basic.

I think its not very common, but it can happen to everyone. Doesnt have to be every night but happens

For me, it was. 🤷‍♂️ It's not something to stress about IMO.

Actually, it’s more common than people think, due to puberty it’s really not that uncommon