Why do you judge me when you don't know me?

Over the past several years I have posted stories that happened early on in my marriage. I have also posted pictures that people seem to enjoy. I have plenty of hearts and comments that confirm that. There are also those that say my husband treats me like trash for posting pictures of me.
First of all my husband treats me like a queen. He has given me more freedom than I deserve. I personally don't think I have to be dressed all the time. I am topless a lot of the time and have been caught numerous times and really don't care. But just because I don't care if you see me in just my panties doesn't mean I want to have sex with you. Why do some of you refer to me as a slut because I'm topless and don't mind. Even though I slipped up a few times very early on in my marriage I don't believe in sleeping around. I am grateful I have a forgiving and understanding husband who has stuck with me even though I hurt him deeply.
I have taken stories down because of comments that were made when we voiced our opinion on other subjects.
Just because I am comfortable bare from the waist up doesn't make me a slut, whore or anything that includes screwing around. Basically I am looking, enjoy, maybe touch but respect me.