I cannot decide who I am 馃馃尶馃馃尶馃
One day I鈥檓 like Suzy homemaker godly girl who just wants to have babies and a sweet home. Wants to wear turtlenecks and go to Starbucks.
Example ; godly girl
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Next minute I鈥檓 wild passionate bohemian girl who wants a few little tattoos, dress like Frida Kahlo and wants to be a painter/poet.
Example ; Frida
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Other days I鈥檓 the mad girl, manic and really mystical and so on. The vamp.
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I can never decide which person I want to be?
Example ; godly girl
Next minute I鈥檓 wild passionate bohemian girl who wants a few little tattoos, dress like Frida Kahlo and wants to be a painter/poet.
Example ; Frida
Other days I鈥檓 the mad girl, manic and really mystical and so on. The vamp.
I can never decide which person I want to be?
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I know EXACTLY what you mean.
As others have already commented though, having these different sides to us and trying to navigate them is I guess what makes us human. We don't have to put ourselves in boxes.
If being a manic passionate Bible-perusing latte-sipping Frida Kahlo is who you are then I think that's just beautiful :)
As others have already commented though, having these different sides to us and trying to navigate them is I guess what makes us human. We don't have to put ourselves in boxes.
If being a manic passionate Bible-perusing latte-sipping Frida Kahlo is who you are then I think that's just beautiful :)
Lhayezee 路 22-25, F
@sirenofthesea Aww thank you for BC too <3
DearAmbellina2113 路 41-45, F
onewithshoes 路 22-25, F
sirenofthesea 路 F
The vamp is actually my favourite too @onewithshoes
SomeMichGuy 路 M
So? Don't be one-dimensional.
sirenofthesea 路 F
This is a good point @SomeMichGuy
SomeMichGuy 路 M
@sirenofthesea Thanks!
You are telling us that you have a rich, varied personality. That makes you *interesting*. CPAs might find that
unsettling, but most people would find that great.
As long as it's not MPD, I think it's refreshing to have a range of interests, etc.; it seems that is part of this pull you feel in different directions. Embrace it, run with it, but don't feel bound, tomorrow, by whatever you think today.
You might be trying to figure out the "balance"...if so, a) no surprise and b) welcome to life! lol
Bottom line: don't sweat it. You are who you are, and we all have to figure out balance...some more than others.
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You are telling us that you have a rich, varied personality. That makes you *interesting*. CPAs might find that
unsettling, but most people would find that great.
As long as it's not MPD, I think it's refreshing to have a range of interests, etc.; it seems that is part of this pull you feel in different directions. Embrace it, run with it, but don't feel bound, tomorrow, by whatever you think today.
You might be trying to figure out the "balance"...if so, a) no surprise and b) welcome to life! lol
Bottom line: don't sweat it. You are who you are, and we all have to figure out balance...some more than others.
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SW-User
Be them all.
sirenofthesea 路 F
But they contradict each other @SW-User
SW-User
@sirenofthesea yeah, true. I guess maybe try them out in turn and spend time feeling what they are like, and decide which suits you best. Perhaps you will discover your true self along the way.
Barny52 路 56-60, M
It鈥檚 them pesky hormones
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