One day I’m like Suzy homemaker godly girl who just wants to have babies and a sweet home. Wants to wear turtlenecks and go to Starbucks. Example ; godly girl
Next minute I’m wild passionate bohemian girl who wants a few little tattoos, dress like Frida Kahlo and wants to be a painter/poet. Example ; Frida
Other days I’m the mad girl, manic and really mystical and so on. The vamp.
As others have already commented though, having these different sides to us and trying to navigate them is I guess what makes us human. We don't have to put ourselves in boxes.
If being a manic passionate Bible-perusing latte-sipping Frida Kahlo is who you are then I think that's just beautiful :)
Human beings are multifaceted though. We're silly mammals. We have a lot of seemingly contradictory sides, a lot of the time. I think it's kind of beautiful.
You are telling us that you have a rich, varied personality. That makes you *interesting*. CPAs might find that unsettling, but most people would find that great.
As long as it's not MPD, I think it's refreshing to have a range of interests, etc.; it seems that is part of this pull you feel in different directions. Embrace it, run with it, but don't feel bound, tomorrow, by whatever you think today.
You might be trying to figure out the "balance"...if so, a) no surprise and b) welcome to life! lol
Bottom line: don't sweat it. You are who you are, and we all have to figure out balance...some more than others. 😊😊😊👍
@sirenofthesea yeah, true. I guess maybe try them out in turn and spend time feeling what they are like, and decide which suits you best. Perhaps you will discover your true self along the way.
