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Have you been bullied because you dressed nicely?

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HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F
No. Bullies are thankfully rare in my neighbourhood because they know what'll happen to them.
ElegantAlex · 18-21, F
@HairbrushDiva My situation was resolved similarly, although I wish didn't need to resort to what I did.
HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F
@ElegantAlex Nobody regrets getting revenge on bullies around here.
ElegantAlex · 18-21, F
@HairbrushDiva I always consider that living well is the best revenge. My tormentors were not prepared to let that happen. When I was violently attacked I had no choice.
HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F
@ElegantAlex We believe in "eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth" here, and we all stand together. Anyone who messes with one of us messes with all of us.
ElegantAlex · 18-21, F
@HairbrushDiva I was, for most part, on my own. I did have some friends but they were never around when that threesome showed up. I did not want to do what I did. Everyone emerged damaged.
HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F
@ElegantAlex There are considerably more than three of us who would have stuck up for you against that threesome. There are considerably more than three hundred of us who would.
ElegantAlex · 18-21, F
@HairbrushDiva If only I lived in your neighbourhood.
HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F
@ElegantAlex You'd have the pleasure of watching bullies getting beaten up and hospitalised, if they dared to venture into these parts to begin with.
ElegantAlex · 18-21, F
@HairbrushDiva The threesome who had harassed me were unaware that despite my rather delicate look I am actually quite strong and regularly train at Krav Maga (Israeli self-defence). But they persisted and tried to physically assault me. They found out the hard way.
HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F
@ElegantAlex There are plenty of us like you in my area.
ElegantAlex · 18-21, F
@HairbrushDiva My problem is that here I'm about the only one I know of who can do that. Not saying it did not present challenges but bullies, from my experience, are extremely ineffective when they encounter resistance
HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F
@ElegantAlex At least you proved you can look after yourself.
ElegantAlex · 18-21, F
@HairbrushDiva Sustained some damage (slashed with knife). Dress completely ruined (and it was one of my piano performance dresses!). But, at least I was on my feet and in a position to walk away from the scene. The other three were not.