In this casual world, do those of us who dress nicely make ourselves targets?
18-21, F
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Heavenlywarrior · 36-40, M
I think it all comes to just envy and jealousy…it’s just like if you actually are a naturally beautiful stunning looking individual… you may get hated on or even treated a certain way because of it…
But in reality they like you so much and may want to be you or have your beauty.
But in reality they like you so much and may want to be you or have your beauty.
ElegantAlex · 18-21, F
@Heavenlywarrior Envy and jealousy, certainly. But, in my experience, I do not believe it was based on them "liking" me in reality.
Some people see the world as a zero-sum game. If someone appears to be better than expected it can only detract from them. Thus, that person must be "taken down a peg or two" just to bring their world back into balance.
Some people see the world as a zero-sum game. If someone appears to be better than expected it can only detract from them. Thus, that person must be "taken down a peg or two" just to bring their world back into balance.