Do Guys like when a woman wears high heels, or do women just wish we do?

@Lostpoet maybe I should ask why women get very angry when somebody hurts their feelings but they will tolerate any amount of pain possible when it comes to beauty? Surgeries, botox, liposuctions etc.... Lol. Women are tougher than men in some areas.

@IndianaJoes Societal norms. I think we should be asking ourselves why women have to go to those extents to feel attractive.

@Lostpoet often I have wondered that question. For my logical thinking I'm thinking this... "Why don't women just focus on finding men who are satisfied with their personality more than their beauty?" And personally I think natural beauty is far better anyway. Bird doggin guys are dime a dozen.

@IndianaJoes I agree, I like natural women, but I can also see how someone's self worth can drive them to do some unhealthy stuff " the whole daddy issues," mind set. But again I think that ditzy blondes have more fun image is something the media perpetuates.

@Lostpoet oh man, you are so right about that too. And it is so hard for so many people to just step outside and take a look in at themself. I wish that women most women would understand that a good man is more concerned about the personality anyway. And especially nowadays, there are so many things that women do to themselves that actually turn me off. For instance.... If I walk up to the counter to order me a hamburger and fries and she's got Chrome snot balls hanging out of her nose... I no longer have an appetite and turn around and leave.

@IndianaJoes I don't understand the Bullnose look, but the side nose piercing is nice. Personality is 90% percent of attraction.

@Lostpoet as they say... Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. That is so true. Just a basic pair of earrings is good enough for me and it's not even necessary. But these piercings and tattoos? Well maybe a butterfly on her ankle or something is okay but anything more is just a big turn off to me. Probably what really disgusted me from this is that sometimes I will see somebody who doesn't take care of them and then they have pus or blood oozing out of them. And that's my problem with restaurant workers wearing the stuff. They're scratching and itching and touching it and then they're also touching my food. And no, they don't change gloves every three minutes either. Just freaking YUCK!