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TinyViolins · 31-35, M
I wouldn't say it bothers me so much as I find it amusing. It makes me wonder who they're trying to impress.
I guess you could say it's a confidence boost/esteem thing, and if that floats their boat, so be it. Personally, I can't imagine putting a lot of effort into something that I'm not even going to get to see. Well unless I start cross-examining myself in front of a mirror or camera, but I'm usually not that vain.
When a person dresses for comfort, I can infer pretty reliably that they're comfortable with themselves
I guess you could say it's a confidence boost/esteem thing, and if that floats their boat, so be it. Personally, I can't imagine putting a lot of effort into something that I'm not even going to get to see. Well unless I start cross-examining myself in front of a mirror or camera, but I'm usually not that vain.
When a person dresses for comfort, I can infer pretty reliably that they're comfortable with themselves
CharlesRomsey · 61-69, M
@TinyViolins Hmmmm. Some people want to look good to feel good: if they choose to dress up, that gives us all pleasure. It causes no harm.
CharlesRomsey · 61-69, M
I always admire people with style. I passed a "woman of a certain age" yesterday on a beautiful day: she was attired in a lilac-patterned ankle-length dress with matching accessories and a wide-brimmed hat.
I stopped her and said: "Excuse me, Ma'am, you look so elegant!". In return I received a beaming smile, and a "Thank you!".
Compliments cost nothing.
I stopped her and said: "Excuse me, Ma'am, you look so elegant!". In return I received a beaming smile, and a "Thank you!".
Compliments cost nothing.
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bijouxbroussard · F
@whippersnapper Why ?
@bijouxbroussard I guess I know too many men and women - in the corporate world - who are more concerned with [i]how they look[/i] not [i] how they think or behave[/i]. And, do you know what? It works for them. However, perception is not reality. Most of these people are vile individuals with no moral compass - yet they have the respect of many because they wear Armani suits and drive Mercedes. - They make me nervous.
Other than that ... I have no reason 😆 I do really love to see people's imperfections. My favorite bits about the people I love are their moles, scars and freckles etc. It makes them unique. It makes me feel closer to them because I know the story of how they got that perfect imperfection.
Other than that ... I have no reason 😆 I do really love to see people's imperfections. My favorite bits about the people I love are their moles, scars and freckles etc. It makes them unique. It makes me feel closer to them because I know the story of how they got that perfect imperfection.
RebelFox · 36-40, F
@bijouxbroussard not hating. Sorry
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
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Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@bijouxbroussard me too x
Justenjoyit · 56-60, M
