Does it secretly bother you when you know a person who is always well dressed and put together?
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BittersweetPotato · 31-35, F
TinyViolins · 31-35, M
I wouldn't say it bothers me so much as I find it amusing. It makes me wonder who they're trying to impress.
I guess you could say it's a confidence boost/esteem thing, and if that floats their boat, so be it. Personally, I can't imagine putting a lot of effort into something that I'm not even going to get to see. Well unless I start cross-examining myself in front of a mirror or camera, but I'm usually not that vain.
When a person dresses for comfort, I can infer pretty reliably that they're comfortable with themselves
I guess you could say it's a confidence boost/esteem thing, and if that floats their boat, so be it. Personally, I can't imagine putting a lot of effort into something that I'm not even going to get to see. Well unless I start cross-examining myself in front of a mirror or camera, but I'm usually not that vain.
When a person dresses for comfort, I can infer pretty reliably that they're comfortable with themselves
CharlesRomsey · 61-69, M
@TinyViolins Hmmmm. Some people want to look good to feel good: if they choose to dress up, that gives us all pleasure. It causes no harm.
CharlesRomsey · 61-69, M
I always admire people with style. I passed a "woman of a certain age" yesterday on a beautiful day: she was attired in a lilac-patterned ankle-length dress with matching accessories and a wide-brimmed hat.
I stopped her and said: "Excuse me, Ma'am, you look so elegant!". In return I received a beaming smile, and a "Thank you!".
Compliments cost nothing.
I stopped her and said: "Excuse me, Ma'am, you look so elegant!". In return I received a beaming smile, and a "Thank you!".
Compliments cost nothing.
deadgerbil · 22-25
PiecingBabyFaceTogether · 26-30
wackidywack · 22-25
bijouxbroussard · F
@whippersnapper Why ?
@bijouxbroussard I guess I know too many men and women - in the corporate world - who are more concerned with how they look not how they think or behave. And, do you know what? It works for them. However, perception is not reality. Most of these people are vile individuals with no moral compass - yet they have the respect of many because they wear Armani suits and drive Mercedes. - They make me nervous.
Other than that ... I have no reason 😆 I do really love to see people's imperfections. My favorite bits about the people I love are their moles, scars and freckles etc. It makes them unique. It makes me feel closer to them because I know the story of how they got that perfect imperfection.
Other than that ... I have no reason 😆 I do really love to see people's imperfections. My favorite bits about the people I love are their moles, scars and freckles etc. It makes them unique. It makes me feel closer to them because I know the story of how they got that perfect imperfection.
RebelFox · 36-40, F
@bijouxbroussard not hating. Sorry
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Homeatlast · 26-30, M
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Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@bijouxbroussard me too x
Justenjoyit · 56-60, M
