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Do guys generally avoid deep conversations about themselves and their thoughts and opinions? Why?

Why do they escape from even even when the situation presents itself?
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I'm a guy and I don't avoid the situation, I always try and speak to close friends about my problems, I've always done this because I didn't like the culture of keeping all the feelings and thoughts, its very unhealthy. Maybe this makes me more effeminate to behave or think in this way, but it has helped me so much and I'm not afraid to be humble and confess my feelings or thoughts to a close friend.

I think because in the pop culture, the man must be a super hero and must be this and that. There is a lot of pressure to fulfil this image. But the truth is a man does not have to be anything, or need to be anyone else. He can just be himself, love himself.

I hope that a woman will also love a man who is very gentle, soft and open to her about his feelings, after all, I thought this is a part of a healthy relationship and the woman will feel as if the man trusts her, which is a nice feeling.