@lilylovesgaming1986 Wait, you work there? And he hasn't been back since?

If you have his address, you can do a reverse search on Spokeo for a few bucks. Or maybe go to his place and look for him? Or leave him a note? If you're planning on having the kid, he should be aware that he is on the hook for child support. If you're planning on having an abortion, you don't have to tell him anything. In fact, I'd recommend not telling him.

@LeopoldBloom I do know where he lives. But I just imagine it would be strange with me just showing up and telling him I am carrying his child

@lilylovesgaming1986 If you're keeping it, he deserves to know and also that he will have to pay child support.

Maybe it is strange showing up at his door and telling him you're carrying his child, but a one-night stand with a guy you just met is also strange. The two go together and if he freaks out, that's his problem. I'd recommend going with a friend.

Seriously, if it was me, I'd like to know. Unless your plan is to just send him the bill after the kid is born. Although I wouldn't want to bring a kid into that situation, if I can be frank with you.

You're in your late 30s, and this is your first kid? Although I'm my parents' oldest child and my mother was 38 when she had me.

@TallMtnMedic I met him at the bar. We never was in a relationship so it was just physical

@lilylovesgaming1986 Well, that explains the lack of a phone number. Maybe go back to that same bar and see if he's there or if the bartender knows him. I know if I had managed to score at a particular bar, I'd probably go back in the hope of it happening again.

@lilylovesgaming1986 did the condom break?

@Court69 never used any protection

@lilylovesgaming1986 pm me

@8INCHSheffieldGuy I only started to date Josh 4 weeks ago. I am 6 weeks pregnant

@1490wayb My guess is that she isn't going to tell him either.

@Fieldmaster this is my first child. He has two kids with his ex

@lilylovesgaming1986 o shes gona be maaaaaddd

@lilylovesgaming1986 oh okay..