Pregnancy update
Well I had my first pregnancy check up this morning. I found out I am 6 weeks pregnant. So the father is mark not Josh. I don't know how I am going to tell him. I don't even have his phone number.
36-40, F
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OscarTurtle · 61-69, M
You obviously contacted him at least once! 😉. Use what you kniw about him. You can find him.
lilylovesgaming1986 · 36-40, F
@OscarTurtle we met at the bar where I work at. I have been at his place multiple times
OscarTurtle · 61-69, M
@lilylovesgaming1986 if you kniw his place, finding him shouldn’t be an issue. You may PM me if you need encouragement or anything else
LeopoldBloom · M
@lilylovesgaming1986 Wait, you work there? And he hasn't been back since?
If you have his address, you can do a reverse search on Spokeo for a few bucks. Or maybe go to his place and look for him? Or leave him a note? If you're planning on having the kid, he should be aware that he is on the hook for child support. If you're planning on having an abortion, you don't have to tell him anything. In fact, I'd recommend not telling him.
If you have his address, you can do a reverse search on Spokeo for a few bucks. Or maybe go to his place and look for him? Or leave him a note? If you're planning on having the kid, he should be aware that he is on the hook for child support. If you're planning on having an abortion, you don't have to tell him anything. In fact, I'd recommend not telling him.
lilylovesgaming1986 · 36-40, F
@LeopoldBloom I do know where he lives. But I just imagine it would be strange with me just showing up and telling him I am carrying his child
LeopoldBloom · M
@lilylovesgaming1986 If you're keeping it, he deserves to know and also that he will have to pay child support.
Maybe it is strange showing up at his door and telling him you're carrying his child, but a one-night stand with a guy you just met is also strange. The two go together and if he freaks out, that's his problem. I'd recommend going with a friend.
Seriously, if it was me, I'd like to know. Unless your plan is to just send him the bill after the kid is born. Although I wouldn't want to bring a kid into that situation, if I can be frank with you.
You're in your late 30s, and this is your first kid? Although I'm my parents' oldest child and my mother was 38 when she had me.
Maybe it is strange showing up at his door and telling him you're carrying his child, but a one-night stand with a guy you just met is also strange. The two go together and if he freaks out, that's his problem. I'd recommend going with a friend.
Seriously, if it was me, I'd like to know. Unless your plan is to just send him the bill after the kid is born. Although I wouldn't want to bring a kid into that situation, if I can be frank with you.
You're in your late 30s, and this is your first kid? Although I'm my parents' oldest child and my mother was 38 when she had me.