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There is always more to the story

There is always more to the story.

I have in the past, suffer from a rare and potentially fatal pregnancy condition called Hyperemesis Gravidarum. HG, as we abbreviate it, has no known cause, no known cure, and no consistently successful treatment. It is marked by violent vomiting, severe dehydration, malnutrition, organ failure, and - in too high of a percentage - death.

According to the larger HG organizations, HG is fatal 25% to 33% of the time. According to the international support group that I help to direct, 16% of HG pregnancies are terminated.

16% of HG pregnancies are not terminated because the mother does not what the child.

16% of HG pregnancies are not terminated because the pregnancy is an inconvenience.

16% of HG pregnancies are not terminated because the mother cannot afford to raise the child.

16% of HG pregnancies are terminated because medical professionals fail to adequately treat the mother’s suffering, to the point that women are dying.

Women are dying because medical professionals are not doing their jobs.

I am lucky. My doctor trusted me. She prescribed medication she didn’t want to normally but realized that the mediciation would save my life.

I am lucky, and a lot of women are not.


I am lucky, because I am alive.

I know women who were admitted to mental wards because their medical professionals thought the condition meant they didn’t want their baby. I know women who had Child Protective Services called on them because the doctor was convinced that the vomiting was an eating disorder and they were neglecting or abusing their unborn child. I know women who have [temporarily] lost their children because of the treatment they sought for HG.

I know women whose organs have shut down. Women who were told, “You are going to die if you do not terminate this pregnancy.” Women who survived the pregnancy, then died weeks later because their violent vomiting cause esophageal tears that became infected. Women who died in the middle of the pregnancy because their malnutrition reached levels so severe that their heart gave out. Women who have died because their wanted pregnancy, their wanted baby, has died because doctors did not treat them appropriately.

I know women who are alive today because they terminated a wanted pregnancy.

And I know people today who, in celebration of yesterday’s Roe vs Wade reversal, know women who could one day be in those shoes.


There is always more to the story.

And some of the leading characters may be people you love.
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Mountainlady16 · 22-25, F
Prince William's wife suffers from this so does a lady I follow on YouTube neither saw the need to murder their babies
@Mountainlady16
neither saw the need to murder their babies

When your purposefully use such inflammatory language, there’s no longer a debate, only fight and echo chambers. I pray for you to learn kindness and compassion. Amen.
Roadsterrider · 56-60, M
@JustGoneNow So true, somewhere in the middle between the rhetoric of the left and the right there is room for required medical procedures without judgement.
@Roadsterrider amen. 🖤🙏
Mountainlady16 · 22-25, F
@JustGoneNow it's simple fact it a living human being. Many people rudely told me I should get an abortion with my first 2 because I was so young. I told them where they could go
@Mountainlady16 that was very wrong of them to do, as your choice is very valid. I know for me, there is zero chance I would abort regardless of the circumstances (danger to my life, rape, etc…) but we cannot fight hate with hate, and darkness with more darkness. Light and love.


Bless you and your child btw. 🌸
Mountainlady16 · 22-25, F
@JustGoneNow true I come from a pacifist church we are taught to not hate
@Mountainlady16

Prayer of Saint Francis of Assisi

Lord, make me an instrument of your peace:

where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury, pardon;

where there is doubt, faith;

where there is despair, hope;

where there is darkness, light;

where there is sadness, joy. 


O divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek
to be consoled as to console,

to be understood as to understand,

to be loved as to love.

For it is in giving that we receive,

it is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
Amen. 🖤🙏

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