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Thong panties?

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To young

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Our 10 year old daughter is asking for some thong panties. Kim is totally okay with that. I think 10 is a little young. What do you think? 🤔

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Kimtime · 41-45, C

She's 12 years old now, and it's either thongs or no panties at all. She so much like her mother.

Tonydang · M

@Kimtime if she looks like her mother than hell yeah

Kimtime · 41-45, C

@Tonydang And now that she's 15 I can't get any panties on her.

Tonydang · M

@Kimtime lol !! Not a bad thing I suppose ☺️

lilcountrygrl · 36-40, F

They're just panties! I hope you let her get them.

katycollins · 41-45, F

What too young

mathsman · 70-79, M

@katycollins Did you wear them at her age Katy?

mathsman · 70-79, M

@katycollins How about some posts Katie?

BlondOne89 · 31-35, F

I think it's fine.

Reboot · 46-50, M

What's the worst that could happen? She doesnt like them, doesnt want to wear them and then you've wasted a few $$ on some underwear. No big deal.

Eyesropen · 61-69, C

My daughter went through the same thing at 10 or 11, apparently all her friends were wearing them. Whatever...

corally · 56-60, M

@Eyesropen nothing wrong with it

Eyesropen · 61-69, C

Lol, as long as nothing else is going on. We had to watch some of my daughters friends.

Pleasingyou81 · 46-50, M

It depends on how she's raised. She's around it so I'm sure she wants to be like mommy.

Eyesropen · 61-69, C

@Pleasingyou81 i'm not sure it's like that her mom doesn't wear them at all and she has no sisters it was just her friends influence

TimSummers · M

She is going to do what she wants.

Grasshopper25 · 31-35, M

I'd ask her about them first, which you already did. I don't have kids, but if other girls that young are wearing them.. Seems like a harmless social thing. Its just underwear, who cares. nobody can see.

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TimSummers · M

@Kimtime: Nobody would have known if you had not brought it up in the first place.

Blueraja1 · 46-50, M

@Kimtime I don't think it only sends the wrong message to dirty old men. Sporting ankle was once considered lewd and sending the wrong message to dirty old men. The question you should ask her is Why does she want them? If it's for the boys at school, or no bunching or whatever then that's a conversation you should have with her and should play a role in whether you get it for her. If she mentions or you can tell she wants them to attract the boys then you should have the old birds and bees talk with her. And with emphasis on safe exploration and safety in general, physical, biological, reproductive, emotional...etc etc. If you don't discuss these things she'll have to learn them all on her own, and than can be dangerous.

gdon39 · 46-50, M

You know if you say *No* she'll go straight for them. Best to stay out of that one prolly

Reboot · 46-50, M

@gdon39:

Best to stay out of that one prolly

HA! Best to stay out of her panties. That's a good one. 😆

BlueMark · 56-60, M

Do we as men sexualise thongs? And do women ? Or they just comfortable?
As a father, I’m not but, I get your concern. I guess your daughter just wants to feel she fits in with her girlfriends and be grown up like mom.
I’d say it’s ok...

Daltonico · 61-69, M

On balance I'd say probably too young but either way it is not the end of the world. I might well ask why she feels she wants that just now.

Kimtime · 41-45, C

@Daltonico It's the old "everybody has them but me"thing. 😱

SageWanderer · 70-79, M

Peer pressure. I'm sure our daughter had thee same types of things, I stayed out of the fray and let mom handle it.

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Kimtime · 41-45, C

Do you think for the better?

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SexyBritt · 26-30, F

I think that’s the right age

Socialclutz · 36-40, M

Yes too young

SW-User

Way too young

Pervboss · 46-50, M

Whatever makes her comfortable. It's not like she's walking around showing them off to other people. At least hopefully not lol

SW-User

Oh my. I didn't want to know. My wife handled it. She's 22 now, and I still don't want to hear it.

Likemyung · 61-69, M

Depends on her level of maturity. Why does she want them?

norinradd · 46-50, M

Don't think it's a problem, no body is going to see her

corally · 56-60, M

my daughters wear them started younger than that

PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M

They are just panties! Bet Kim probably has some.

girlscumfirst · 51-55, M

I think she should be wearing them already

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SW-User

Way too young

Nobody28 · M

To Young

Ramrod · 46-50, M

I say too young.

LikeMind · M

Too young

mathsman · 70-79, M

Yessss

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Grasshopper25 · 31-35, M

@NunIover Thats part of what this site is for, asking questions, getting advice. I dont think its that fucked up, he's trying to raise his kid, he wants an opinion.

NunIover

@Grasshopper25 I gave him my opinion

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