If a kid isn't ready to move out when they turn 18, their parents failed. Willing and able to are 2 differnt issues.

If they CAN NOT wait to move out, than their parents failed too. And, the parents' failure would be the parents' fault, not the kids', not the government, not the school system's.

All of the above was posted by someone who didn't move out until he was almost 21, because he joined the U.S. Navy. But, does anyone disagree with any of the above?

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cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

Some kids are more independent than others and it depends a lot on job opportunities they have when they graduate and if they got to work before then to help build some self-confidence.