@sashatodd: sorry for that must have been painful!

I am absolutely agree.

how come?

@sashatodd: He really should know don't you think? He might be very supportive during this phase

Ya know what that last sentence hit me hard!! Haha I had to sit back a minute and think about how true that is. Thank you!

He in himself was one big canon-sized bullet.

@Adeft: Maybe because a part of me believes that he had a right to know that he was going to have a child? Or that he did have one and she unfortunately didn't make it full term. I do understand where you're coming from, but I also think there's sensible reason in telling him. And raising a child in high school is hard- I've seen it, my cousin did it. I know it's a lot harder doing it than watching it, but I was prepared for that. It's difficult and it takes someone responsible to get it done right, but it is doable.

Still no point in telling him since you aren't even dating for one. It'll just cause problems. Kids want to admit to everything or hide everything, there's an in between. Hide this. Forever. Maybe even kill the guy if he finds out just in case

@Adeft: um...